What People are Saying

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Rebecca

Business Owner, France

I approached Tom to work with him because I was tired of feeling stuck in the same thought processes / patterns of behaviour that I knew were holding me back from living my best life. I invested in myself to work with Tom and I haven’t looked back. Tom has helped me identify where and why I’ve been feeling stuck and helped me identify thought processes and patterns of behaviour that hold me back. Not only this, Tom has dug deeper using a variety of tools and techniques to help me understand better who I am. Tom provides a safe and calm space for me to talk honestly and openly, express how I am feeling and empowers me to take action towards my goals between sessions. Tom is transformative, with his help I have experienced real positive change that I didn’t think was possible.

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Sukaina

Psychotherapist, Pakistan

As a psychotherapist, I was a little hesitant on learning that Tom was a coach, as I had wanted EFT sessions to work on some deeper issues and I was unsure whether someone with a coaching background would be the best fit. From the very first session I was put at ease because of his truly comforting presence. Tom is remarkably genuine, empathic; he deeply listens and has a strong understanding of his work. Because of those qualities I felt comfortable to access shame and early childhood wounding and move towards healing. Even though I went specifically for EFT I would recommend him in any capacity, their is something quite spiritual about his presence that makes him suitable for any healing work.

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Noushka

Business Owner, Massage Therapist, France

To say I was surprised by the results of my session with Tom is an understatement. Some of the areas we explored I hadn’t ever really seriously considered but I do feel I have been able to effectively bring the insights into my daily life. (What more can you ask for?) I feel I’m able to deal with things that come up day to day more easily and with a different perspective. I found Tom reassuringly experienced and incredibly perceptive.  I felt very safe with him even whilst going through some very strong emotions. Always professional but with a warmth and gentle humour to the sessions which was much appreciated. Highly recommend.

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Paul

Business Coach and Consultant, UK

Tom was our program facilitator & tutor on our 8 week Mindfulness for Life course. Tom is a fantastic teacher and I feel very honoured to have been taught by him. His presences and ability to hold space in a nurturing way is great, he builds trust quickly and is able to get to meaningful learning quickly. Tom delivers a tremendous course and I have no hesitation in recommending Tom and will be certainly working with him again.

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Annie

Life and Leadership Coach, Colombia

Besides Tom´s wealth of knowledge and experience, a result of his commitment to developing as a professional and as a human being, I believe one of the reasons that makes Tom a fantastic coach is his sincere motivation to create a positive impact in people’s lives which is expressed in his superb ability to be present and hold a mirror in challenging and yet very compassionate ways.

 

Coaching with Tom has been a great experience. He brings transformation by listening to what is said and not said, using his intuition (and tons of other tools) he helps to tap into the truth of the issue and work with WHAT IS so to give birth to awareness and with that the possibility of making intentional decisions from a place of resonance. Tom’s generosity, creativity and his passion for this work are inspirational and I highly recommend him as a partner on the journey of self-discovery.

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Helen

Motivational and Business Coach, UK

Tom is a very unique and special individual who has sat intuitively with us throughout this course with compassion and understanding. This has enabled open conversation and a progressive plan that whilst pre-determined, has felt organic and natural. It has allowed us to grow at our own pace and in our own way and draw on his clear wealth of expertise. I highly recommend Tom for coaching and mindfulness experiences.

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Tom

Life and Corporate Coach, UK

When I contacted Tom I was frozen to the spot. I needed to take the plunge and start making the calls that would push my business forward but I was terrified of picking up the phone. What if they said no? What if they hung up on me mid sentence? What if they laughed? Almost as worrying was what if they said ‘Tell me more.’

 

I had become lost in a welter of sales scripts, googling appropriate companies and watching youtube videos on selling and closing. Tom simplified all this by suggesting we focus on the one thing I hadn’t factored in at all - the ability to trust myself. It was a tremendous relief to discover that the underlying problem was something we could fix and that compared to some of the experiences I’d had, the act of calling someone, even someone I didn’t know was nothing to be afraid of. Tom also provided accountability on this process moving forward which felt like pressure at times but it kept a fire lit under me!

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Shankar

Yoga Instructor and Marketing Consultant, France

Tom’s insightful but easy-going style seems to bring underlying obstacles to the surface quite naturally. At the same time it allows space for the more difficult work of engaging with our resistance and, if appropriate, delving into oneself to find the roots of that resistance. His support is more comprehensive and constructive than observing personal goals, and more practical than simply providing an ear or a mirror. Rather than being tied to a system or formula, Tom deploys the plentiful tools and techniques he has at his disposal as and when they are appropriate.

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Andrew

Support Worker, UK

I very much enjoyed my coaching sessions with Tom - most of them on the phone or skype and one of them in person when we just happened to be in the same town. Tom has a calm, thoughtful, sometimes irreverent style, and is able to draw on a host of techniques and tools. I felt that the answers I was looking for very much came from within myself and Tom was just the guide I needed to locate them. I highly recommend working with Tom.

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Ben

Company Director, UK

My coaching experience with Tom has not only helped me to achieve goals, but more importantly, it has enabled me to discover who I am, what motivates me, where I take satisfaction and what those goals really are. We worked together on a management leadership plan and Tom helped me to achieve these goals.

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Natasha

Coach and Mindfulness Teacher, Switzerland

Tom is a great coach, considerate and mindful. He has a gentle but firm style of communication. He uses mindfulness to complement to coaching techniques and that ensures holistic approach to finding solutions as well as learning to Be with whatever is. I am highly recommending Tom as a coach to everyone who wants to live a fulfilling life!

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Andy

Financial Expert, UK

I very much enjoyed and highly recommend Tom's very collaborative coaching style. He is very insightful, asks great probing questions, is able to draw on an array of tools, references and examples, but also gave me plenty of space and support to explore angles, draw out conclusions and work things out. After our four sessions I felt that it had been very effective, in a far broader sense that just for the original issue that I'd initially contacted him about.

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Steve

Travel Consultant, UK

Tom is a skilled listener, knows when to let you talk and when to challenge you on something you’ve said, and how to help you find your own answers. I found he embodied the qualities I was looking for in a coach – intelligence, empathy, and a good sense of humour amongst other things. As the sessions went on I was also impressed by his memory for things I had said in long rambles during previous sessions. Furthermore his overall air of balance and decency builds trust very quickly, I’d recommend him to anyone seeking some help with a sticky point in their life. Thank you Tom!

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Jason

Musician and Entrepreneur, UK

During my coaching sessions with Tom over the past two years the changes I have seen are quite incredible to me. The most striking part of this is my change of perspective. I realise now that the way I saw things were limiting me. I only saw things ONE way. During many of my sessions we spoke about using many perspectives and took a step back to look at the bigger picture and how my mind worked. This is something that is hard to do when you are living it. Just this one simple tool has enabled me to look at my life as a whole from many different perspectives and make the changes that I wanted. When I look back at myself before and after coaching I cannot believe how far I have come. It wasn't easy. Sometimes it was a little uncomfortable. Other times I had to push myself a lot. One thing that I am sure of is that it was much easier with coaching and I now use these tools and ideas everyday to be the person I want to be.

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Conor

Head of B2B Management, Ireland

Prior to working with Tom I felt that I had lost my sense of direction, allowing work to dictate my time, whilst neglecting other key areas of my life. I started working with Tom during a period in my career where there were multiple changes and challenges within my working environment. Tom’s coaching was a fundamental driver in enabling me to refocus my perspective, both at a macro and micro level. Rather than being caught in a current, I was able to regain control and shape key areas of my life, both from a professional and also a personal standpoint.

Tom’s coaching has been incredibly powerful. The sessions not only helped me improve my communication and stakeholder management skills, but also enabled me to expand my perspective towards a multitude of scenarios. Tom has an innate ability to identify the internal obstacles that you hold in front of yourself and supports you through the process in fully understanding, challenging and overcoming these barriers. I would absolutely recommend Tom's coaching without hesitation.

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James

Engineer, UK

After working with Tom for a few months I've noticed a significant change to my perspective on life. He creates a fantastic space where one can be open, honest and flourish in their lives. I didn't know what to expect from coaching but I'm extremely happy with the way Tom helps me to continually challenge myself and bring about significant change in my life. I highly recommend Tom's coaching.

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Rachael

Business Owner, UK

As a start-up business owner, I am generally very stressed and have a lot on my mind. Tom’s coaching helps me find methods to focus on each task in hand rather than becoming overwhelmed with it all. At the end of each session I feel lighter, energised and more confident in my ability to constructively deal with the challenges in my work environment, to create opportunities for work, to build and rejuvenate connections with other people and to move forward in other aspects of my life as well. All in all I’ve gone from an open-minded sceptic to a total convert.

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Carla

Company Director, Washington, USA

Tom is the quintessential coach and advisor. He approaches every encounter with an open mind, a thoughtful, empathetic approach, a commitment to do what makes sense - and humor. No ego or agenda to contend with, just a smart, perceptive man who leads without fuss and gets to the heart of whatever topic is being discussed. We worked together on several delicate change projects that significantly altered the way our company did business. Tom brought difficult issues out into the open, stimulating valuable discussion by questioning both the meaning of the change and the methods we were contemplating. His genuineness and desire to arrive at good answers - not necessarily *his* answers - allowed our teams to achieve true clarity and reach better-quality decisions. He'd be among my first picks if I were fielding a high-caliber team.

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Ignacio

Technical and Sales Consultant, Spain

Working with Tom has been really easy! His business approach is excellent.He always understands what the customers want and delivers real value to them. He's capable of managing teams under a lot of pressure and get the results in time. It's been a pleasure working with him.

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Alja

Health and Wellbeing Expert, Slovenia / New Zealand

Without doubt Tom is a creative and passionate coach. We have never met in person as we use Skype/phone for coaching. His approachable, focused and friendly nature makes for the perfect coaching environment and instantly instills confidence. He reminded me of my core values, my strengths and much needed courage. If sometimes struggles make it difficult to breathe, he 'hears it' and instantly works with me to present appropriate steps. He supports me, but he also challenges me. I absolutely love working with Tom and can't wait for our next call. Thank you for your commitment and continued assistance Tom.

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Jean Pierre

Solution Consultant, Spain

Human behaviour fascinates me, especially the way people connect with each other through nonverbal communication. Gestures, body posture, and facial expressions are extremely important in every interaction. Before we speak a single word, others have determined how credible, confident and trustworthy we are. By integrating knowledge of neurology and (evolutionary) psychology I help people to fine tune their nonverbal signals and interpret those of others accurately, which has a proven positive effect on their Emotional Intelligence. 

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Naomi

Nurse and Outdoor Instructor, UK

I spent a few months being coached by Tom during a difficult time in my life. His approach was great, he was very understanding, conscientious and a good listener. He helped me to look at my life differently, to focus my energy on little tasks, taking one step at a time, rather than trying to do every thing at once. This gave me some order in my life. I would definitely recommend Tom's coaching to anyone.

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